social ambushEarlier today, minsoo asked me if I wanted to "go see a free screening" of Co1ma:the musical (yes, a musical about the place with all the cemetaries and car dealerships on the way to SF. Funny funny). I was really tired from a long day at work, but I had wanted to see this film awhile ago, so I changed into grubby clothes, my comfy sweater and we headed to the theater in Little Tokyo. I figured it'd be a good way to veg out after a long day at work.
However, when we arrived, I was very surprised to find a semi-fancy reception gala going on outside the theater. I saw the business casual-dressed crowd sipping wine from clear cups and immediately felt under-dressed and unprepared for what I like to call "the schmooze". I wanted to just hop inside the theater, but we were forced to crash the party, not intentionally, but because the gala was blocking the entrance to the theater. We were socially ambushed.
We were spotted by a few acquaintances who directed us to the name tag and buffet table. I felt really underdressed and all-around uncomfortable and dying to escape into the theater. Note to self: in LA, going to see a movie may also require wearing heels and something trendy.
We also ended up in a few group photos. The photographer showed me the first photo, where I look so frumpy (Think Wai-Ling circa 1998). The second time the photographer asked if he could take a group shot of "Us" (aka people we were standing next to), I wanted to say no, but that would have been rude. So I tried to smooth out the lumps of food in my mouth and do a pressed-lip smile (never a good look for a "round" faced girl like me). Mmm, so beautiful.
When we first arrived, we met up with the guy who was going to get us free tickets and he introduced us (or rather, he introduced Minsoo) to a random girl who did PR for film festivals. She was young -- like, just out of undergrad young. And very enthusiastic, which made me feel even more awkward given that I was unprepared for social interaction. Under better conditions, I think we might have hit it off. However given my state, I just wanted her to stop talking. She went away after a bit, but then popped up as we were getting food and introduced us to her friend. I think she thought we were her age or not that much older because when minsoo introduced me to her friend as "my wife", she was taken aback, I hope because of how "young" we look/seem not because she was disappointed that minsoo was taken.
Pet peeve: standing right by a person being introduced by another person (who knows you) and not being introduced to that person. What the hell? How rude.